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What do I need to be aware of when masturbating with toys?

1.Pick the right toy for you

There are many toys on the market, but what works for you is the best. Suitable for other people's toys are not necessarily suitable for themselves, which is the same reason as making a boyfriend. Some girls sensitivity is relatively low, a slight stabbing muscle is easy to feel, this time to choose the toy frequency intensity should be slightly mild, if the intensity is too large, will lead to sensitive parts of the pain, numbness and so on. And some girls sensitive threshold is relatively high, if the frequency of mild toys, it is difficult for her to feel pleasure.

For the first time for the novice, it is more recommended to start from the external toys to start, and then slowly upgrade a variety of into the body, or external and internal stimulation of the toy at the same time, you can also match some other erotic small toys, such as favorite clothes, bondage props and so on. If you want a sex toy of your choice, feel free to pick it up on ooty!

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2.Creating an atmosphere

Pleasuring yourself needs atmosphere, needs environment support. Just like when we go out for a trip, we have to choose beautiful places and wear nice clothes ...... The pleasure of being alone has to be cozy and nice. So how do you create an atmosphere to use small toys?

① First, set up the scene to your liking so that you can immerse yourself in it with total relaxation;

② Clean yourself from head to toe and put on your favorite Haruhi Fun clothes;

③ Then you can put your favorite ambient lighting in the room, and you can also put your favorite aromatherapy;

④ Then have a soothing piece of magnetic music or voice and mute your cell phone to avoid being disturbed;

⑤ Most importantly, mobilize your imagination, it can be the sex novels you read before, small videos, your ideal person, you can imagine any place, person, event you like ...... (Sexual Fantasy)

⑥ Finally start your own pleasure journey in various positions and frequencies ......

There are many ways to create an atmosphere to please yourself, and you can have a sweet, sweet love affair with yourself by changing your environment differently each time.

3.Learn to caress your own body, not just to solve the physical needs of the end of the matter

Desire may be violent when it comes, but the way we treat it cannot be rushed. If you're with a partner, it's even more important to understand the idea of slow sex.

Foreplay is a very important part of sex, but many people do not have foreplay or foreplay is very scribbling, which will not only make the experience of sexual intercourse less, but also not conducive to mutual emotions.

Caressing is a very important form of foreplay, and in practice you can spend more time caring for your own and your partner's bodies, warming up each other's sensitive areas and relaxing both of them. (Of course you also need to caress yourself mindfully if you are alone)

4.Change different ways of sexual intercourse to stimulate the sensitive spots everywhere.

If you keep eating one food in a row, chances are you will get bored or even never want to eat it again. The same goes for our body, if you keep treating it in a single way, it too will become senseless. This is the crux of the problem between many sexless couples.

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In sex, learn to change different ways of stimulation and stimulation points, which will make all your sensitive areas, are kept alive and highly sensitive state, the caress of the body everywhere, but also will make the whole person become lighter and more radiant.

5.How does pleasuring yourself look like in your mind?

Do you take the time to please yourself physically and mentally? I think the pleasing yourself thing is something we all do all the time: a trip, a candlelight dinner, a book that has nothing to do with work, nights embraced by our souls, reconciling with ourselves over and over again ...... It's all proof of being in love with ourselves.

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So have you ever loved your body properly? Imperfect body, not smooth skin, not silky hair ...... and the parts that are private to you. What is beauty? Is it a tall, curvy body with pink skin, or is it the look of someone who isn't perfect who sincerely loves themselves?

Beauty is never defined, it's the flower that blossoms within you the moment you accept your imperfections.

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