Sexy couple kissing in bed

10 ways to enhance your intimacy experience


Unlocking the Art of Sexy Kissing

Sharing intimate moments through long make out sessions has always been a very satisfying experience for me. Whether with a prospective partner or an existing partner, I often stress the importance of exchanging kisses over long periods of time. In fact, I find that I get more engaged when watching porn when the performers engage in intense kissing, especially live cam models.

However, despite my passion for kissing, I've never really expressed my thoughts on how to enhance the kissing experience. Today things have changed. Below, I’ll go over my top ten tips to make your make-out session truly amazing.

Relax your lips

Think of your mouth as a freshly baked potato – yes, come with me on this one. You'll know it's not quite ready to eat yet when you squeeze it gently and it feels firm but not stretchy. The same principle applies to your face when kissing. Excessive tension in the kissing area is not only uncomfortable for your partner; It also limits their ability to respond to kisses. Instead, think of your lips as soft pillows rather than hard points.

Rein It In

From my own perspective, I don't really like the feeling of my makeup buddy trying to swallow up my entire face. While it's flattering to see such enthusiasm, the feeling can be overwhelming and not entirely pleasant. I suspect many others feel the same way. If you leave a ring of saliva around your partner's lips after you kiss, it might be worth reevaluating your technique.

Pay attention to your breathing!

I rarely stress the fragility of "emotions," but if there's one thing that can ruin it quickly (in my not-so-humble opinion), it's bad breath. Here are some strategies to control it:

Carry gum or mints with you when you go out, unless you or your companions are allergic to mints, in which case don't bring them.

Avoid brushing your teeth immediately before making out, as this may soften your gums and make them more susceptible to infection. Instead, choose a mouthwash to quickly freshen your breath.

To quickly check your breathing, try this trick I learned from Matt and Kim: lick your wrist, wait ten seconds, and then smell it. This is what your breath smells like – react accordingly.

A must-have lipstick!

Someone once told me in high school that wearing lipstick is a sign that you're going to make out with someone. I thought it was weird then, and it still does now. Personally, I always keep lip balm in my pocket - not because I plan on kissing someone, but because I don't want to deal with dry or chapped lips, especially if kissing is a possibility. Plus, it adds a delicious flavor. So, go ahead, irresistible!

Give positive feedback

If your kiss partner is doing a great job, don’t hesitate to let them know! This is especially important if you're kissing someone new. Encouragement can help ease their nerves and make the experience more enjoyable for both of you!

Explore beyond the lips

While kissing is often centered around the lips, don't ignore the potential sensations throughout your mouth. Biting your lips can add extra intensity, and the tongue, one of the strongest muscles in the body, offers a wide range of possibilities. Tongue sucking, in particular, can be an exciting experience for both parties. So don’t hesitate to explore more varied and exciting kissing sessions beyond the lips!

Sexy couple kissing in bed

Share Leadership

In any intimate encounter, whether overt or subtle, there is usually a dynamic of power or initiative. However, when engaging in prolonged intimacy, be open to sharing this balance of control. Embracing this mutual empowerment will not only increase the excitement, but also maintain suspense throughout the experience. Remember, it’s all about collaboration and communication, so feel free to switch things up and keep the motivation flowing!

Embrace eye contact 

Anyone who comes up with the idea that opening your eyes while kissing is taboo is clearly missing out on an exciting experience. Making eye contact during a passionate embrace can be incredibly intense and exciting. So, don’t hesitate to indulge in this mind-blowing connection – it just might take your make-out experience to a whole new level of ecstasy!

Embrace Spontaneity

As cliche as it sounds, living in the present is the most important thing. Amid the abundance of intimacy guides and scripted approaches, real connection relies on spontaneity. Sexual encounters mean interacting fully with your partner, responding to their cues in real time, and letting the natural flow of desire guide your actions. So adapt to their body language, synchronize your movements, and let spontaneity lead the way to true intimacy.

Asking for consent isn't just about following the rules; it's about creating an environment of trust and mutual respect. While sexually charged dance has an undeniable appeal, uncertainty can often lead to missed connections and unnecessary drama. Imagine if Prince Eric simply asked Ariel, "Can I kiss you?" Not only does it ensure consent, but it shows genuine interest and respect for the other person's boundaries. Plus, it adds a layer of anticipation and excitement that makes the moment even more intense. So, remember, asking for consent is not only mandatory, but it's also undeniably sexy.

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